Its either a fix some things that doesn’t work or to improve things so they work even better. Reasons varies for some the quest for money and success they find ways to do more of that while also missing things along the way.
Its always a choice what to do.
Focusing on fixing leads to missing things like consistency enjoying stuff along the way.
Let me say there is no optimal or perfect way just one way to go explore the variations of life.
Change people might want but also the effects and consequences of that change some haven’t really figured out before hand.
If your golf swing becomes better you also play better golf and then maybe realize your having issues winning or that other parts of your game isn’t that good. Its work whatever we do.
You can however create a business which means its not needed to have you there to make it work it works without you. Personally I am doing things that I am there to do as its how I enjoy doing things still it wont mean I cant have a business that I don’t need to be there for as my interest normally is elsewhere.
I can do company change transformations taking a company and then alter their whole infrastructure and process levels and sometimes all it takes are one individual to do so and the effects will be there. I changed a small company fully in 4 hours once.
I have taken impossible cases with clients and they today live normal lives and still I don’t get send presents every week for a thank you.
There is no reward for doing good work.
You need to understand that when you do work people will be grateful but your not in this work to feed a misdirected thinking why your doing it. I don’t work nowadays as whatever is going on in my body takes to much of my time to keep in line if I was to trust and rely on the medical community I likely be dead now. Some things they are really good at but this not so much.
People want things they are close to and many times they don’t even really know what they want. You might think if your have an issue or such that if you do read or watch a you tube it will help and it might do that but likely it will involve you doing things to change things around to as some say take action.
Those that make RBIm work for them all fit that they do things that work and test stuff so called pragmatically approaches.
Let say your stressed, so your running mixed representations and combined them and jump in between them all the time never really stay clam and rest.
Once you focus on the staying calm and rest what happens is that your system has to disconnect all the representations you normally associate to be you and your life.
Its what we do, our brain identify with them make them to believe its us.
When I play golf I just play golf and whatever score I do this day its how good I am. I don’t think I could have done better out there and I don’t go thinking like that the next time either, if I do a score and a result its how good I am. Its also what I did do so the next time I am free to do better as what I do isn’t based upon what I used to do in the past.
It’s the future result and possibility at work here so if your going to do RBIm one thing will be there and that is whatever you just did, you just did and the next thing you do is new and fresh.
You then cant fail with this system. You cant be wrong with this system. You will be both at times for sure but you cant respond the way people normally responds.
The brain do this, you cant learn new with old. If you do new and fresh that the brain can do and respond to anything else it builds habits to. To much the same and the brain responds by automate it. Failing and many become sad and disappointed and depressed.
I fail and don’t even think about it as failure.
I am already set to do the next thing.
When I do a workshop I might have 15 people who all have a different world view if what they want and what I do. I have to do the same thing to all of them, differently. I cant do that if I was bind by the past what I used to do as the individuals themselves also change over 2 or 3 days. I had students and their life was fully different in those days and they haven’t even themselves started to realize that yet. Some did when their kids reacted to them fully differently due to them now was different.
So what people want then?
I don’t know I am not in the people pleaser business.
My writing is what I do if you hire me for a company change I do what I do to make the company transform or change into the system that will work for the future. If that is fully what we intended to have when we started out is another matter though.
A business needs to evolve to innovate and to change every so often, a product or a service might go out of date and we need to anticipate that to change with it.
Microsoft with windows 8 removed the start button and made their life product a mess due to them did innovate but made it harder to use their product….than it was. I am trying to make RBIm easier to use. Microsoft failed with their own core product. DICE did the Battlefield game and now also did fail big time and they have done so for 4 years now with both BF3 and BF4 and soon BF5.
If you loose the identity of your product then you also soon loose the business and dissolves as a company.
Naturally to identify the thing you do so you know this is the core thing your doing is important.
For me I make people better.
I just do it either it’s a individual who is dying from something or a company needing to change their infrastructure or the group or family that have issues in life in general as whenever I do things and I don’t even think what I do its what I just goes around doing, make people better.
Many times the individuals themselves don’t even understand what I do or why it works or that I even do things.
Its what I come to accept in my line of work I just do better.
I made miracles happen for sure no doubt. I don’t even think about it as hard or strange its what I do what works that makes it better. Now and then I find something that is a challenge and I had students that been with me for years that I tried to figure out how to do better for. It helps me to understand the human brain better and consciousness and perceptions.
What we do, think and behave and feel as a human is a product of your society. Its how you conformed to what the world think you should conform to more than what you yourself thought it should be.
Whenever I do things and write I don’t think what people will think about this what I do. I don’t go out there and this is what I want you to do and think and feel.
I let you be you as I say I respect the human right to be who they are. Naturally people cant respond to that due to normally they engage into this awkward communication of rules and laws their society happen to put on them. Sometimes it means I am to them a bad guy or a strange guy or a crazy guy or a genius guy. For some they can find a way to fully start to explore this life in a way to experience it fully to drink the stars light and to walk in the shadows and step into the darkness of empty space but as metaphors go the space is filled with stuff we don’t normally attend to.
I had parents who have kids with dyslexia ask their kids if they understand this guy and they look at their mom and say not all of it but I am getting better. I cant explain that I am already is tracking their expressions of their skill and I am doing it in real time and then adjust on the fly within the a time reference most say cant be done or even know about so for me its science and skills and for parents its often overwhelming and later magic.
Yea I am good making better.
Since dyslexia is an issue that don’t need to be and I can do things that work there to make dyslexics to learn to do things like you or me makes it impossible for many. For them what they think and do is based upon what is true in the past.
I move with the future and I dance along the lines of stars aligning themselves and I do smile and awake the giant within as I move on unseen into the shadows and the space opens and there is nothing.
Just me sitting there waiting.