Ever hear about “Binds?”
Its like this, the individual have problems and believes if they become happy the problems solve themselves.
Making them happy leads them to realize while happy that their problems didn’t solve themselves.
Individual goes back to old preference (unhappy) due to the new happy isn’t working as its a mismatch with beliefs, having the wanted new happy wont work as the reality isn’t about the embodied experience at all……………..get that and your able to get out of your binds.
Your attention forms your reality not your body