Contextual time zones

Let say you have a goal or an outcome you like to achieve.

That you want to stop smoking, or pick up your kids in time or just make sure the milk don’t run out in the fridge, small tasks but important ones or having enough ice cream.

Now, mainly people go I want to go there to the goal.

I ask, so what happens after that when you reached that goal?

People then say, what you mean? I say when the goal/outcome or such is already achieved what then?

Its about organization here, if you set a goal or outcome as to achieve it, you engage into the process to get there but that requires a lot more work than to ask, when the work I done is done then what’s next for me?  What most don’t know is the achievement of the goal actually produce a new context a reality if you like with traits you developed during that engagement into the process to get the goal and outcome.

The brain is good at patterns, so if you go to the next time zone what has happen you reach such goals and then ask what you did develop as a trait in relation to that process or previous time zone if you like then….

A star of its own

Its easy to get hanged up with old things, like memories. Its easy to think oh those days was better without penicillin, with dysentery, with gonorrhea, with syphilis, without protection without doctors washing hands and killing babies after done an autopsy yes those days was much better.

Ouch I killed romance now right?

That what wishful thinking does, we isolate portions of what it could been but the rest?

floppy discs, CD wasn’t even out and I talk about 1980! Computers was a dream cellphones? come on. That wasn’t long ago, today every kid is face booking, sms and such without even considering what life would be without it.

Our recall of what was fun, enjoyable and such is like that we isolate portions of what was and nicely forget all the other shit that made life hell. Take kids today out in the forest remove the cellphones and they go crying in the dark.

Our brain is prone to go habit and automatic, if you remember things those then becomes isolated events in portion of our daily experience and the tendency to use them as what was true once then becomes true today we filtering our experience trough a past event so that means we don’t pay attention to events happening today. It leads to judgment, assumptions and just stay clear of icebergs titanic.

It also happens without we really know its happening as all seems fine, no panic bring towel.

Future memory has a disadvantage, it doesn’t seem real, in comparison to what is really real what has happen once earlier on. Imagine that you actually think what you been trough is more real than what you haven’t experienced yet.
Seems kinda funny to me, people tell me how it was better and forget what happens right now as I go how about your kid? They go, what about him? How is he today? they go whad ya mean?
I say, well he is different today than he was yesterday but if you don’t pay attention to present things, you miss it.

So what did happen yesterday is more real than what is happening right now and tomorrow?

How did that happen?

Its that guy who press delete when the computer writes on the screen delete hard drive yes or no? And then asks, what happen I cant access my files?

If you don’t understand that your colored eyeshades wear your shiny light into your eyes is passing trough the bus stop and you sit there thinking well nothing new happens and then you will have a generalization going on a perceptual filter that blocks anything that is fun out of your portion of experience. Unlike eyeglasses we cant remove this filtering or understanding it by putting on or off our glasses.

We could ask, why even care?

I use this to improve my enjoyment of the day, when I meet people I am making sure I take a snapshot of them what they are today not where they used to be and I even sometimes make sure they are their future selves.

If people think improvement happens without struggle, without challenge and without work they are deluding themselves. I found that I spent 4 years study the golf swing, now? I am done but during these 4 years I spent hitting balls and every swing I made I created a variation with, either as I played or when I was at the range or did swing indoors at home.
I didn’t which is common trying to make a perfect golf swing, and I didn’t improve my swing during this time. I was working for my future result. If you understand that, there is a whole process in between when you don’t and when you do. It’s a learning curve and I know whenever I do things its what I do I spend a ridiculous time uncovering every rock and flower out there.

So whenever your going to learn new things, you can check out examples of success, excellence you like I choose Mike Austin as he did it it long but also due to the fluidity he display while swinging. I never got the language of kinesiology, still don’t even if I do use some terms its not needed to learn to have a golf swing. Naturally once I have things down I go back and start applying them.

As I done with my own golf swing, its how I do work with modeling, it might seem funny to you, shouldn’t I be better during the project but modeling doesn’t work that way, its about the result then sorting to find out what does actually produce the result not what you think it does.

Once such has been found its put to the test.
Its what I do now, for myself for Larry and others.

RBIm is such system of self discovery and it will mean a lot of work doing it. If you want easy and simple, there is a ton of systems out there as options. I do Intu-flow daily since 5 or so years now, I changed my diet since 6 years back and keep on it. I recently decided to do a little faster weight loss so I applied that with a more strict eating habits and home schooling gym work, Yesterday 30 min walk, today its airsquats. I push this to my limit, which is silly low but I cant sit really comfortable as change and growth happens with work.

Its like a star, it doesn’t ignite until enough mass has been collected into enough density and when it does that then it ignites. Jupiter was almost a star, but almost isn’t good enough in the Universe. If it had been then we wouldn’t be here. Mistakes happen out there, right now the Andromeda galaxy is crashing into us, its not like we can, ok rear engines go left as we will crash into that galaxy one day. I wish I could have seen it.

I am preparing myself for the golf season, 3 months to range opens here, yes silly. I change my swing action lately as I applied the model for myself. Yesterday I watch my swing and went, ok turning in the downs wing, not good, changed one thing, didn’t turn anymore and went, aha this is what its like doing this then. Doing it this way allows me to understand much better if an amateur struggles and what they struggle with.

I don’t fix a bad habit, I don’t make specific changes, as once you discover what its like you can just do it, like riding a bike. No matter how bad a swing you might have, it will just work once your done with this one.

Larry will be the interesting case here, as we can compare a swing he did do for many years and at age 66/67 learning a totally new motion and hitting it 50 yards longer or whatever the case might be will raise a few eyebrows in the golf community. Once he is done which isn’t much left to do mainly some range work and tweaking, he be as consistent as Hans is and even if he isn’t as long, I suspect him to swing it 300+ yards now and then. It actually is around 10mph more than he does today which isn’t much as he haven’t been able to apply for all out yet.

Its how I have evidence to what I do and done, when the model works, it just works but it isn’t what you are used to follow and read about in a book or look at a video, here you will discover what your references has to be to create your own swing.

RBIm is like that also. Problem is I cant ask myself what I am doing as I be coloring this.

Not easy to be a star on my own.

How good is Hans?

I wanted to build a world class player.

Once I went into study the golf swing mechanics I also applied the same for me as I would benefit and also help me understand this better and once that was going on consistency search also happen as any tour pro needs that but none has it.

I think in terms of skills here, like if Hans has a 2-4% dispersion pattern and he should have that this spring, and normally a player wins when they are at those numbers, and when they don’t they have a 8% as a normal one and even worse when they hit it way more, like Mickelson hitting a 7i 15 yards off line and into a forest.

So its about dispersion control, then distance and then efficiency.

Talking to Hans its evident this is all getting there and I fully assume and expect him to be around 2-4% dispersion as his normal pattern. That is what happens when your able to focus on what works.

I am about to talk to Larry soon on Skype, he now have all there is there to know about his golf swing except one thing, swinging it like pros with their impact. Its also hard to learn by yourself if you’re an amateur like myself been,what’s a pro impact, what does it feel like and how do I do it?

One of the things I did notice indoors with Simon hitting balls I could consistently make ball contact first. I knew how to get my club head there, and the ball took off. Now I had some body motions that was good, but from where I come from I notice the difference and I also took notice off this is how those pro guys does it. Recently at indoors home I cant do much more now, I need range work to improve ball impact and how much I need to alter my down swing to make it the way I want it. I expect to swing it like a pro during spring.

If I can play like a pro is another matter, the same way its about how good Hans is, we find out. If he can have those skills into those I want, and improve them, he either win or be in contention in every competition he enters. World class then.

I am 50 year old, and I own kids in fps games like BF4. It’s a bad game design and DICE really dropped the ball since BF2 days. I view golf swings and instructors much the same, they want you to have a hand or arm or elbow somewhere and I think however I see them swing and they say its better they are not able to do it consistently. I then study Moe Norman as he was consistent, and yes Mike Austin guys would say they hit  a 6i the same distance Moe hit driver and Moe still would beat them with 15 shots. So I looked into Moe, and formulated an idea there, then added Nicklaus, and then set things in motion this spring. Its most likely the amateurs I am teaching as of today is the only ones I take on. My skill set is geared towards the PGA/LPGA tour as my skill set is without question so much more efficient than those coaches have at their disposal. So I wait for Hans to practice play, then once that works, then I find out how he does in competitions.

Skill set decide to a large extent how good you be, as you can improve a skill set and if your normal one is what the guys winning have, well then you will do good whoever skill and background you have.

Larry for example is 67 years old and haven’t yet understood how a tour pro makes contact which is now his limitation or inhibition if you like and to discover that himself is possible but hard, so I taught and pointed out to him what he needed to build to get there, but I haven’t told him why I said the things I said, he just a good student, follow my instructions, those that don’t like my teaching style, well they wont last past my writing.
I taught his body and mind this you need to learn then this, feel and sensations then this and then that and he done it all. Tonight I let the dog loose, the tiger, the elephant into the room of glass.  Time to go animalistic.

How should you discover what its like to feel a tour pro impact if you never done it? How can you change the pattern unless you discover the proper correct one? Its really hard to do so yourself without support, Skype allows me to see you swing, it helps me to add variations into your patterns and teach you about what your body is doing educating your action until you can arrive at what works.

Larry is about there now. He is a dedicated student, just ask his wife.

To discover what its like allows you feedback, if your play as Hans is discovering that he just hits it straight then I can help him improve that now with RBIm pattern’s as that is doable but focus on technique isn’t.  If you measure your skill level if I do this then I am playing like this then its all you need to do to create the foundation to play at your potential.

Once Hans does that, Jacob Bowden is going to call me and Stacy Lewis.

If they don’t well, I be here waiting sipping coffee.

The comparison modes

Let say you want to be better, if its a skill its easy as your then focus on improving that skill. You can measure it and find out ho well you do so you go oh better. Now how do you feel today, happy and then go how do I become happier?

Funny enough it’s the same thing you work at it.

Its not like things happens to us, we learn to respond to events around us, sets up the causality for us the reasoning that if we see a man pick up a coin and then the next few days see another man pick up a coin and when it does happens the third day we think, that is God working trough him. I like to say not he works at the bank. The brain remembers those events, once the pattern is found the brain goes like this,
short cut, man picks coins must be a connection now man is picked by God to do that.

Next up, happiness.

If you produce happy, we normally would say, if I eat ice-cream I am happy or that I have a party, or drink a lot of vodka or smoke some pot or such. If I see my kid I am happy and I go why should things has to happen outside you to then make those outside events produce the mood and such your have today?

Why not go, today I want to be happy all day?

Or sexy, passionate, smart, ferocious, zoned out, or any other pick your candy for the day.

Why cant we just do that wouldn’t that make our life easier if we just was happy and no matter what did happen around us, we wouldn’t mind that?

Normally you do that you let events around you in your life control how you feel in any given moment of time you cant choose to just be happy. It might be the event trigger us like a button called anchor where the event itself might be nothing but it reminds us about some other event long ago oh no that pattern again the brain does for us, it takes random events and then find similarities and then go, seems the same must be the same and then tell the brain produce these adrenalins and this cocktail its time to party.

Yes memory works like that, similarities will trigger your actions even which is funny the old event that was what it was cant be exactly the same today as it was then but that is our brain doing patterns and then we just assume the brain knows what is going on.

Zombies eat brains, that is a clue to they don’t eat our legs, but the brain and what does a zombie know? Nothing they are half dead.

So we make a plan today I be happy, then the kids throw up, become sick I have to be stressed out called the doctor, the job the boss and then my husband is sleeping with the secretary I know, life sucks. Oh yes happy was it right?

So easy to loose sight of what we are suppose to do as we get side tracked by events so we as I suggest train us to hold onto our experiences, as I done 5 years with intu-flow and now my body feels like this galaxy of space moving around but I aim to have the Universe.

Once we have information we take it in compare it to what we know is true, we tend decide to either ignore or delete or accept, instead we should ask us, is this what it is?
Or is the me the I just accepting it for a false God like any star gate traveler would?

Unless you identify that this is what you want and the conformity of life and us is that we want things to be the same. We want the fun time to never ends, we want the sex to be as great every time and just improve we don’t want to go stale and bored and become this endless zombies walking to the factory and car every day thinking shit not another day.

If you don’t work out if you don’t run, if you don’t adapt variation to your workload the brain adapts to it. if you take the same walk the brain increase efficiency to make it easier to do the same walk so you need to create a variation to improve.

To be happy?

Find as many ways you can be happy and then as you add one variation to another at some point you reach the point of no return, your always able to be happy.

How long how many variations?

It will vary and depend on the individual.

I found the image using goggle to this blog.
It’s a pure coincidence the blog is about happiness as I write this post today, pure innocent coincidence no karma no secret no mystical force.

Unless you think I am Jesus reincarnated, I take that any day.

What is the difference – That I teach with a golf swing?

I work with the natural timing, rhythm and lets call it attitude of the individual and from that I create a consistent golf swing you can do day out and day in. It means I can tailor the work I do to any individual, any golf swing they might have and offer suggestions to what to do so it works.

That’s what a model allows me to do, I follow the template and that gives me instructions to what to do for the individual.

Larry sent me a video today, love that and the swing motion looks good now ( I say perfect), all that is there now is to make sure he don’t do his old tighten up action. I wrote him but I assume he will need a Skype talk to explain it for him. Its just more condensed to talk about it than read about it.

I did read a post on golfwrx forum that helped me define the above, what I can do is to make sure your swing is identical in tempo from one swing to the next swing. That creates consistency no tour player is able to do today in each swing they do.

Any modeling project also teaches me about my own process, the result I arrive at, so next up is a look into the RBIm template again as its not complete yet.  I am glad and happy to be done with the golf swing template as I know what to do with the template there and it works, it also needs Skype and feedback to the player live but today its doable thanks to Skype and tech progress. To talk and watch someone on the other side of the Atlantic and be able to offer direct feedback sitting home drinking coffee?

Love it.

And yes even if I know what to do, still take time to get it there for the player and golfer.

pw to spoon, set the clock for each swing.

RBIm or Realization Behavioral Integration model

Its about your consciousness and to discover what its about and how it functions.
Now let ask us do your consciousness work, did you think what is me and self for and is it something I should go around discovering? If I did the walkabout down under and traveled there or to India if I took the wrong boat there, would I then find myself elsewhere than I am?

If you say no, go to line one.

If you said yes, the answer is “oh God not another one”.

Its about the comparison mode, what you do have is a duality of sorts, its like Darth Vader fucked your mom and ended up with twins called Luke and Leia. Not you of course since this is about star wars the story of the force. In RBIm we call upon the force using tools like the magical carpet ride Intu-flow yes you will feel like a wheel or like that guy chasing windmills but he was nuts so what do I know? The RBIm drill is basically about your attention resides with how your body moves while it moves so you learn to attend the force as its elusive and unseen and you seen the movies so come on! You already knew that! You still loved the movies.

The force in RBIm is called vestibular or more directly this portion of it, Equilibrioception.

Once you tapped into the dark cellar wine and brought an ale or two along, you find yourself drunk on the verge , ah wait wrong story, let me try this again, you thought I am all alone in the Universe I am so alone and then one day you found RBIm and was told you had a fucking twin and that you could hang out with that and you thought after your run screaming to mom that it was after all a cool idea having Darth Vader as your dad as he after all become good in the end as he needed to be spanked hard, let his son almost die and then he did kill that evil guy that emperor and then all forgave him?  What’s that about?

Your duality of consciousness created since childhood have blocked out the real you, nah its more like the future is here now. FutureNow as we RBIm mental retarded cases call it at least  me when I am insane enough to realize that whatever I am doing it isn’t me doing it. That who I am isn’t that but the one in charge of that. However since we are told that what we are is what we do, well then why not create something that you then do that makes you higher than a kite and no to drugs. That you could create a new reality a new FutureNow that includes the very best of you the good Luke, the very nice and sweet Leia the mom that died for your sake so best be really good now and the dad that went to dominate the galaxy and ended up glowing in the dark and how cool isn’t that!!! Glowing…(said with Homer Simpsons voice)

We then create a representation yes a mental image in your head when the future works for you, and then we do this nutty thing its so crazy that we are told we cant do it as its impossible and if it was intended then Buddha would have said so to this. Once that FutureNow image is created we don’t have an answer to it, did you read the words telling you it was about “discovery”? Yes?

What we do is to explore the desire bit to that future image, that on a scale of 1 to 10 how much desire do you have to that and if its zero or don’t care that’s a clue Sherlock. If the scale isn’t going off the chart like a tsunami, earthquake or a spaceship landing in your backyard then its about this desire we need to find out to this FutureNow so it is what you want.

Then we do this thing called traits.

Traits are whole unified field theory the holy grail of all things and for many girls its shaped like a huge dick but for us guys its shaped like a really thight pussy with boobs, its holy so no bad cursing now so no sexist remarks or any religion devil forbade it.

Trait is a level of skill we develop as a response to this FutueNow we created so now we are in this land of unknown that we don’t have an answer to this FutureNow you just created a new fucking future and reality please make sure you are following my ranting here its about self discovery so once you check the desire and then ask what trait did I developed as a response to this FutureNow then you end up with some kind of experience when that is true for you right?

That is what RBIm is all about finding that experience you created so it works for you in your new reality. Its not a job, if all the people telling us we are what we do why not create a future that works by you for you that you created, discovered and experienced daily for the rest of your life?

We RBIm students call it Legendary Awesomness.

Join us as the force never been stronger than this.

Intu-flow demo summer


RBIm drill move the hand attention required.

Observing the observer

I work pretty much with zombies every day. Mind numb and dead.

I guess the cat of Schrödinger wants to come out and play as having the idea of a cat is either dead or alive seems at best random why wouldn’t we let the cat play?

One the Buddhist things they do and many other share that idea is to observe what happens as it happens. Now anyone who have the patience to do so for the next 40 years go fuck yourself.

One of the things the brain does is comparison it means that anytime we deal with the mind we deal with a set of comparisons either you know it or not. if your brain runs like a headless chicken which is a bit better than a zombie thank God you then stop and wait and respond to observation what a painting is and you sit there in front of the painting a long time maybe an hour. As you observer the painting your mind slows down, it stops the comparisons, it cuts recursive loops and your enter a blissful observation ok I just saved you 40 years of fucking meditation for fuck sake, send me a check you cheap bastard.
However, how many actually does that, goes to a museum and sit down and watch the same fucking painting for an hour?

I did.

Not the same painting now.

Not the same me.

But seriously millions does meditation sure do its not a bad thing to do, cutting kids open, killing cats with fire and cut of their heads while they are alive, yes bad but meditation not so much unless you sit in front of a cue.

Observation is an old trick it helps you re-connect to the early years when dads and mom said, lamp, dad, mom and such syllables to you when you didn’t understand the difference to pee in the diaper or on people. I never understand why people think its funny even hilarious peeing on grown up as a child but doing it as an adult? People get mad at me for doing it why? I don’t get it. Some people wants me to pee on them they think its sexy and I say no not sex nuts and wrong and go see a shrink.

How the fuck did this world end up so fucking stupid?

If its run by zombies, mindless ones eating brains you would think they be smarter after that but oh no. We are more likely to do the same mistakes the previous generation did and then do them all over again unless we stop and observe is this what I really really want to do?

Desire, the deepest fulfillment the analogue cue in between the comparisons ah there it is, the depth of field, the cat running wild peeing on all and everything and zombies chasing after it with a litter box, seriously?

Don’t buy a cat. Just eat it.

Much easier teaches the cat a lesson also.

Go to some museum, watch some painting or find one close by, go do it.

Let me know if you see a cat there also.

Mine took off after it got killed and are still running away and it will pee on someone.

Its just random acts they do.

Us humans?

We just think sex is getting peed on or cutting us up or think we suck ass or like dogs more than cats and that whoever put me here should have used the chance button so I came out alive.