Create happy thoughts

Once Gutenberg created the printing press anyone could write down things that made the world a happy place but what did happen was more about marketing the new next book about religious persecution or how to tell if someone is a true believer.

One of the things about us is our brain the gray mass that I wish was in color as it be much more fun with a rainbow in the head than a grey mass however don’t let me be negative here as logically we cant be using two set of words to just be happy right?

Maybe I should say start using Intu-flow it helps with breaking up old patterns we have had for decades yes a good way to actually be more free from the history is to do physical things. Doing such has helped trough the ages I mean any slave will tell you a good whip on their back and they don’t think much about how hungry they are or how bad their situation really is.

Patterns is those pesky things coming in a pair as when we meet a nice girl then suddenly there are more nice girls around us and then they are all smiling at us and then we cant decide what girl to go out with.

The girls?

They only care about their make up, find a good guy that appreciate them and spend countless hours devoting their feet and life and we guys understand slavery do come with a price.

Most would think that being happy you need talent for it or working hours upon hours in a factory somewhere eating chocolate. Once they did discovered they got fat, cant move much and then sit there depressed they ask but what did happen?

Why am I not happy?

I smile and say, well here is the thing about happiness its created by us for us, we decide what things are in life but we got sidetracked like a horse on a race once you make a loud noise the horse can go anywhere and do anything. The horse lacks control over what they react to as we do but the main reason we are different from a horse is that we like ice-cream a lot more than they do.

Its always a true sign when the writing says, one more less than ten two thinks make one left.

What people done is to make the outside world to then decide this has to happen first, the girls call this to kiss them or the horse runs in as a winner or the bar opens early and never closes.

However the brain is a pattern machine it records patterns like a ice skater on ice making shiny new pirouettes and writing the tracks are there to follow for those that see. Recording patterns the brain does it then put them into categories and if you start thinking and doing things like, decide this is funny, this is happy and you do it in whatever you do one day you don’t need to do it anymore as you built a new clock oh sorry a new bell that once it rings your brain goes time to wake up.

If your life is always about what happens around you and you reacting to those events in the same way, its called slavery where I come from and the only way out is to open the door in a space ship and hear everyone scream Nooooooooooooooooo!

You react to events already happen like a bird snapping flies or a horse hearing sounds it cant help react they way they do and sadly as anyone knows your stuck that way as if you’re a slave someone owns you.

If you do want to be owned by the world go ahead as I wont stop you from that.

I am thinking happy thoughts.

Drinks are free.

“Dedicated To Harriet Rowlands Paremata, Wellington memory.”

Weight and fitness work

Back in the day when I did things my weight was around 60kilograms to 63 then around 67 back in 1988. I kept pretty much 75kilo until my illness and then 95 wasn’t the stopgap and it could go worse like a troll.

I took some blood sample for my levaxin levels thyroid gland a few days ago, cool now that’s done I took note they had a scale there! So here I come all cloths and shoes, and it pointed at 88kilo. Now my wish would be 75, still have 7 weeks to go but no idea if I meet my target or not. I decided however 75 its going to be or around there as at least I am able to work something now and the spring and range will help a bit also.

Loosing weight for me is like pulling a giant pin out of ones ass, that got stuck there during the last winters emergency call. Yea I know its like that a lot I guess for some but I am not lazy I use to love to run but nowadays I just love TV. My knees and body haven’t responded good when I tried to run, my capacity to breath been like a whale only surface when you need to.

The first 5 weeks been good, I lost a few kilos, yea and I been holding onto the palo diet a step better not like Fred Astaire but at least I got things done. I feel good about that, belt can tuck a knot more, so now I need to to work things differently.

Main thing?

When you work the body you work hormones, those small things that react with one another like a casino and roulette your trying your luck but you know the game is rigged. If I eat to much food I gain weight which for me is like not much as I already eat like a mouse and I am not sized like one more like the Shrek the ogre and let me tell you genes are like being tied into a lamp pole, it seems like  good really good sexy idea until you understand you forget to disconnect the electrical outlet and you get more excitement than you asked for. But then its all lightning and thunder and I think I do wish I was related to the Gods at least then I could do magic or hire some magician to work this.

I am also as I work out a bit more now even at what I consider this level of work to be at best the worst joke in the history of humanity well I guess killing every Neanderthal was worse but at least I am not waking up into a misfiring time machine any time soon screaming my wits off as I run for cover. Doing 5 or 10 push ups is good for me, once that wasn’t even a warm up but then I was half African I guess as I was doing so much extra.

Letting all that I was able to do once, then you cant do a tenth of it don’t let me go, oh joy what fun this is now as I am more going with the Joker and calling my self insanity plea no judge its true I was killing my cells that was fat by working out once so much that today I take the fifth about my level of ability as I am at best saying it so loud but since its so little it wont get noticed once the fly is smacked against the window and the bird following it goes in the last moment, oh no..

However its not all gloom, dark and endless sucking in a deep hole as I at least is on the proper side of the 90kilo. Now next stop is on that other side of 80 which with any luck is located down the road left of the diner and in middle of the coffee house and the range. I know I have to go to the range hungry, it seems hard and cruel and yes not like I want to do it much like pulling teeth’s but once your idea of fun is pain you really need to learn to find how fun it can be some say and I know its not fun. However hormones react with a spark whenever we trigger them off they go like a Normandy D-day its all coming to an end.

For some it was a really good day for the others? Not so much.

See you on the other side of 80 and I am talking weight here….

Cant teach the 1 min NLP practitioner?

If you would tell someone who you just spent 3 years training to become a Feldenkrais practitioner that you can teach what they do in less than 5 minutes, none in NLP would raise an eyebrow but they do it when I tell the NLP people I can do that in a minute with NLP.

I call that modeling and the application of the model.

Re-booted NLP

20 or so years later I sit down and write this as I wanted to do modeling, build models the pre-requisite of NLP. Neuro Lingustic Programming is a later technology to that which allowed me to build models. I don’t do NLP or hypnosis I do modeling.

I can teach NLP under a minute and you be a NLP Practitioner and Master practitioner and 5 minutes later your better. For anyone teaching NLP today my claim is silly and ludicrous and still it is what I can do as I defined NLP and its equation.

Modeling is the field I do for me and as I said and written RBIm is what NLP should start doing. If the people who does NLP and teach and founded NLP will do such change? Not likely.

However there is a need to re-boot the field itself.
Start over fully, forget who founded NLP and forget its history.

Human beings thinks history is cool and needed. Its not needed when you eat ice-cream or the future of that ice-cream when it comes out like shit isn’t needed either. Facing reality wont change your mind about ice-cream anytime soon and surely not for me.

Modeling which is what I do is finding the single equation if you like math and logic that make sense to define its core essence the distilled down experience if you like in any field you study. Within the modeling you once you define its core experience that allows you to understand the field differently and do it differently your not bound to whatever the field which means the humans thinks it does.

Dyslexia for example is all about one thing which my model the does as that is  what it does train those dyslexics to become a good reader like you or me. Golf I done the same as it interests me.

I did that with NLP a long time ago. Once I understood I run tests to find out if it was the variable that made NLP work or not, it was. I made NLP not working with that and then with that I sit there doing something not the founders of NLP have been able to do and never will be able to do. If they can prove me wrong I do hope but as far they haven’t been able to do so 9 years later.

Modeling is to find out why stuff works the way it does, and once you understand whatever is going on this single thing needs to be found and trained and then you can just do the training and practice by understanding how it works in advance.

The re-boot is needed to forget about what happen before, the infected assumptions about the founders who cant communicate with one another, that sued others as they thought they created and then also owned NLP. Yes you can own an idea its called a patent. That was never filed in time so NLP is public domain. None owns NLP, I asked the guy about what was Bandlers NLP and he told me to read the statement of a judge in a juridical system and law I don’t know much about to then say what is Bandlers NLP and someone else and I just revolted. I don’t think in any way those people that was in the creation can claim any ownership on any model as I did define NLP.

Yes they had a good thing going but me I defined it.
Once the founders of NLP come to me to learn it then I will put it out there.
Until then I sit here drinking my coffee.

I didn’t just study modeling to build models that’s part of it as I also wanted to understand what modeling did and worked along the way. Some people in NLP say you need to do it yourself, and that’s just baloney, and no doing NLP modeling the way Dilts teach it isn’t modeling. Defining modeling as anything else while you do things and applying it is what I been working with since day one. That tickled my interest. No one is able to define modeling either but they still use and apply and teach it.

History for us humans is memory and we put some value on it, we think moving forward updating the models of NLP and patterns as said it would be would also mean to keep the history to the system but that’s not needed. I have built better ways over the years that should been made into NLP so that is what I use and apply but since I also defined NLP and the guy telling everyone what NLP should be updating itself like John Grinder does haven’t step into my room to learn that, I find it whatever he said, not true.

Back in 2003, Joseph Riggio made a decision and what he did was to make me come to a workshop and the history then of NLP would never be the same, well for me at least, for you I don’t know. I went from whatever old stuff NLP that was taught with bandler and la Valle to the new stuff that was about to be defined by me.

Now some might think I am a madman, insane or such, I am a little bit autistic and still I be able to explain what NLP is all about the single little variable and once known you just can make NLP work or not work, just like that.  The field of NLP needs a re-boot, without it its just doomed. I run the calculations myself and its an educated guess but that is what I learned to do guesses based upon models of functionality that with humans habits and patterns tends to be pretty much the same over time.

Its like Leto waited for to be surprised in the novels from the Dune books as he foresee the future and its patterns and awaking the ghoul time after time as is this it as no change would be there. Now it wasn’t Leto it was a man called Frank Herbert who wrote that fictional story but the essence of it we are creatures of habits and we like our history and predicting our future but if the future is repeating the same things, the history we have who created what, can we then expect innovation then?

Its like some with RBIm, so I have to do the drills to the body? Yes I say, the hand drill, the Intu-flow and work the attention towards that vestibular system.  It’s a required skill and needed component of this. If you cant hold your attention onto this you cant expect to be able to do it. 2 days ago Hans went out and played 27 holes doing one single thing. He said all I did was that. He was so out of it when he talked to me as he couldn’t even talk about what he had done and played.

I also defined and model consistency for golf into how to be able to do that none is able to do on the golf tour. It means you need to train yourself to be able to do it. That training isn’t needed to do with golf and can be done elsewhere. Still he needs to do it and I need those evidences to find out if he does it the way he needs to to then be able to play that way out there.

Once you understand the variable of NLP its history and its mess don’t make sense to follow and do anymore as you need to organize with a re-boot and as far I can tell, the field of NLP and those humans are not ready for it yet.

Back to my regular programming.

For me its about organization and NLP needs a re-organization and doing that also changes the underlying assumptions about its own existence and this ties into all those existential stuff you read about.

NLP is boring atm, yea I don’t win any friends in NLP over with that statement, I think the field suck ass pretty much. Its one reason I stopped teaching NLP as I thought enough is enough.

I would like to be surprised but as Leto I am waiting.


Whenever we do we tend to be attracted to stuff we are curious about, interested into, those feelings are there for a reason. We tend to do but most importantly want things we already have a bias towards things we attract are such.

I rad golf forums but not all as I skim things to find such that might be interesting for me. I do so with other areas of life. I get bored fast especially like golf we start talking technique, the same happens in any field for me as once you identified the essence and distilled it down, well what then is there to talk about then?

Now I know that is mine bias and why its there and why it works the way it does. I can stop and also talk about things as such as the pattern don’t run me.

To some extent we cant just be aware as that by itself includes that things we care not aware off as any such notion for me is at best self delusional, enlightenment? Its nothing special and you understand that once your enlighten.  It’s a joke to those understanding the joke but as many might guess your humor Rob isn’t funny.

Naturally we attract things like that humor we find it funny but we also have some bias vs what’s really funny but as I also know anything can be funny, anything, a word, a letter, a sound farting lowly or silently but funny absolutely.

Most however limit to funny or sad or such is defined and limited to a specific arena instead of its all funny. Having such choice to choose your experience well we are not told that or taught how to do that we just walk around the world zombie style until drugs or love drags us into something or an axe split our skull no wait that was a TV show.

I went to the medical place here and they took some blood to measure my levaxin level and as I walked the heat and sun for me felt like, oh spring has arrived.

A few more weeks for golf range and play to go. Its like 2 months or more for play but range is likely to be open up early if the heat arrives.

I then say, I attract the sun.

No silly I am just a romantic waiting for the sun to show me the light.

The road to success



For myself when this image was taken was researching the golf swing and success for golfers a few years ago.

It means a road that we think is easy and straight and downhill is more like a mountain, it looks a lot closer than it is when we look towards the peak and when we travel there we cant go straight there.

I think personally even if I spent 4 years on this I also did it to satisfy my drift to create stuff that just works. I don’t like when I teach or are taught things that wont work. However if no one sits with the answers but believe they do when they don’t that often create a false reality as I call it of success.

Moe Norman spent 6 or so years until he one day had the feeling of greatness he knew he could make the ball go where he wanted every time. Many when they try to copy success like Moe had with ball striking look at his grip, his stance what he said. I seldom do that as I more check and observe what they do. Once I do that and find discrepancy it’s a often a long way to find out what and why the missing information is all about. Yes took me 4 years to research and define but now when I have done that, then this is easy. Once that is easy to make myself able to do it I also devise training and workouts that allows me to learn faster.

I bring things with me from my RBIm tech naturally, its not technique for me with the golf swing as that will happen when you start doing things right.

Many elite level athletes take advice from the experts, like Yani tseng with leadbetter, she also lost her game.  Like Tiger Woods with Foley. There are many golf pros that lost their game and card when they had this idea to change their mechanics.
Mike weir going stack and tilt and lost his game.

I ask, why would we make golfers worse before they get better?

If its an amateur its no secret we all need to learn what to do and that can take the game out for a while. However a tour pro swing and player? That should not happen. They should be able to be better directly.

Having a good golf swing helps you with playing the game better, I lacked one good golf swing sure but I had no ambitions until I thought, let see how good I am as I needed a goal as I researched the golf mechanics. I found that road and path bumpy, mostly failures, mostly about things like nice concepts as MCS that didn’t make me do it.

I knew what I wanted and once I found I also would know it. That might not be the best strategy but since none sits with the answers, I go study.

Once the sorting and testing is made and we can get on track again but getting where you want to be isn’t straight, sometimes you have to go back and start over. I did that 2011 as even if I was able to hit the golfball with everything I had and it went straight my distances seemed off. I then went and did even more study.

Its also not even so I would know if it could work, but as far I done my work for so many years, I found that strategy and creating talent isn’t that far off in most cases. I learned that with clients as I saw people that doctors couldn’t help, therapists couldn’t help and I looked at them and asked things and sometimes it was easy and then sometimes it was really hard. That allowed me to stick with the golf research, being ill didn’t help but I kept on it.

Once found, it don’t mean its done as the road is still there, the straight line might seem easy if you can fly but for us normal ones we need to take those steps one after another. In the end as I worked this I just find that I simplify things, make the essence and distill down what is there. That even when it works don’t mean it allows one to play better golf as I had to define how consistency happens also.

What that together will accomplish I don’t know yet. I talked to Hans today, he was tired as he played 27 holes. Still winter greens on the main course but at least he had some play time. He followed the outlined plan and it works. Now some time to sort trough what needs to be adjusted and tweaked so it just works with everything else. The scoring, the approach and as far I can tell its now mainly a time for him to adjust to find out where the limits are.

To then decide if he can fly after all in a straight line.

I found that strategy, the better one you use the better the result you can accomplish but it also requires you to think about this differently it might change your world view that once known it allows you to do what works the same all the time. Then whatever you done previously goes out the window, you change your shoes when you walk, clothes and then you find the attitude changes along the way. Your amazed that you didn’t know this before and then also suddenly realize this is it.

Then I guess sitting in a chair like on a warm sunny beach is what its about.

The road to get there is way more cumbersome than you think.

Is it worth it?

Normally as I say, its all about the traveling the process but I be lying as when you can do it, its the pure delightful fun.


What its like to coach?

Depends on what and who it is.

Hans I know well, his tendencies and thinking and what he tends to do and apply what I say, so I have to double check what he did with what I told him. If I say do 10 push ups he does 50 or 200. When I said start doing Intu-flow he did 45 minutes 2x times a day. I said, 8min is long enough once a day.

Elite level ambitions are different, he has such drive, and my job is to make him able to do what he wants to do.

It isn’t easy, as what complicated things was swing mechanics, I assumed the experts in the field you know the guys teaching that knew what they did. Once he had his injury and didn’t want to change swings, I started to do research.  I found that the field of golf cant teach good golf swings or game of consistency. I then thought lets find out.


His swing has change fully in the year we worked trough it and since the model was done 2 months ago, its now finalized for him, I got nothing else to do for him, he is done there. He now use a Moe Norman set up and a Mike Austin swing motion and the RBIm plan.

I have to educate myself about the things he cant do or talk about, as when I ask him to do things I never talk technique, its more like, ok how did you hit the ball? He says well a bit left, ok straight or a curve? He says straight left, I say change grip your club head is then closed at impact, he, ok make sense.

However, why didn’t he change this on his own?

He don’t like to change things, however recently he changed his clubface and how much he opens it with the same grip he used, make the ball go where it should, he changed his head movement as he got neck pain as he told me to not move my head and I said, cant swing if I do that so he though wait a second, changed his own head movement and his neck will improve and not be pained. I wait for that that he now can change and tweak on his own that means he is now doing what he should do on his own. He now understands what a golf swing is about for him, how he can create distance and accuracy, what the RBIm action allows him to do now with dispersion and such.

I said, what he needs to understand and accept if he does that move he then just hit it straight and the same. That is in direct conflict with what he been taught for 25 years he have always needed to adjust to fix his swing and game out there. Now? It’s a thing of the past and to start doing this he needs to clean up all his beliefs, his organizations and thinking about what golf is about.

Using my RBIm approach
allows him to be the best in the world with consistency.

That seems like a good thing right?

Well think about this, if you had the biggest dick or tightest pussy in the world you be the biggest star and desired actress in the porn industry but if your not in that industry then you would have no idea you did have the biggest dick or tightest pussy as you would then assume everybody also had such or that there was someone else with that out there.

Now that is a bad analogy but serves the purpose, if you can do that which Hans been able to do for a week, he then can do it every time and knowing what he is doing but that wont mean he can just accept that he can do it when he does it. He then need to organize to that, accept that and play with that.

However that isn’t that easy, as you will once you do that fail and blow up and be miserable for a bit while the sorting goes on. Its due to the comparison mode.

Once you are able to do RBIm reference, then you don’t need to do causality anymore, its this and not anything else than this. You then need to build a understanding about that vestibular reference how it works, how its accessed and how it makes you play. For me its easy for others not so much.

So he played awfully yesterday, so I spent almost 2 hours on the phone with him. Explaining why it is going on, with job, family and workload and then accepting that he can do this is his challenge.

It will never fail him, it will always be there as a good friend forever.

For him after 25 years with bad golf instruction, theory, failure and guess work just having something that just works isn’t that easy to accept.

But like Flosbury proved, if you win Olympic gold with it then you start doing it, or winning the world cup in ski jump or such like Boklov did.

I study ball strikers like Annika, like Hogan like Moe Norman. Then I see one single thing they all did.

Perfect tempo.

I go how do I make that happen?

Thanks to my local teacher back in 2010 I knew what that is, I had 2011 in February the best tempo you ever could wish for and Tomas when he watched me had Goosebumps as he never seen anyone do that ever. I knew I wanted to find out how to do that and when the model was finalized I devised an approach for Hans to do and accomplish that which now have his brain go haywire as it just works.


It’s a time to wait for him to accept it, and move on.

Then it be fun.


WordPress security

Just a note, I use wordfence a plug in for wordpress now, when I was hacked on the website it seems old plug ins and old themes can even if they are turned off still be accessed to some extent. Wordfence sends me mail when website is accessed and as far there is constant attempts out there, so I recommend this,

  • Remove old plug-ins you don’t use.
  • Make sure the plug-in is updated regularly if it isn’t, find one that is with the same functions.
  • Remove old themes you don’t use anymore.
  • Use a sign in name that is not “admin” (doh) or the website name, use a different admin access.

Hackers look for patterns, lazy people who for example buy a router and don’t change or have a password, meaning your remote router can be accessed and used for free surfing.
Most routers come with “admin” and 12345 as passwords. (change them)

Use a different regular access and password and you avoided most easy hack attempts that run bots.

Those serious hackers well Its like anything, make sure if things go bad you don’t have value that cant be recovered. My email as I use Gmail has phone number confirmation. Its more secure but I bet once the guys figure out how to clone your phone and such but that’s not for the normal average hacker.

Normally, don’t click any bank or PayPal mail you get with a link as use normal carefulness and you be fine with your computer. Don’t put in your information to recover password, credit card etc…You be surprised how many thinks it legitimate when it never is.

Have a good routine for admin names and passwords and don’t use the same ones for important work.

No need to be paranoid just caution and expect you be a target.

Inbee Park

Can you be a flipper and win 3 majors in the same year?


Inbee is short, 240yards or so but her swing is solid and she can Putt. She won again shot 62 and 67 and won by 5 shots.


She cant hit it far as any swing is limited by dispersion/distance and she will have dispersion but not distance with that motion. She be winning everything if she had 30 more yards from tee.

Her under par with par 5 holes was, –16 for 4 days. 450 yard/487yard/442yard/470yard.
Wont matter if you’re a bit short if your iron game is solid.

Her image her vs runner up behind her, its clearly shows the difference in play for the day.