If your good at something, your likely spent a lot of time with things like I have for 20 or so years working with brains and people. So I become good but not just working as I also did research. The bad thing when you get good at something is that people who are average at that hate you, despise your skills as they say you cant do that and I think they are just jealous they don’t have the work etic or interest or motivation to learn. Maybe they think they lack talent, etc..also.
I see many new age people like to say you should stand up for what you are and believe, seems like a good thing right? In Syria they shoot you if you do that, Ukraine, North Korea? Don’t get me started, Sweden? or just generally online?
So having confidence, saying your thing, standing up what your thinking and believing in seems like a really good idea until you actually do it then people just hates you. They ban you from websites, forums and such as your not funny and witty and obedient to the rules.
Its ok to be confident, say what you think “if” everybody else agrees with it.
If you don’t people just shoots you, cut your tires, steal your stuff and make your kids cry in school when they bully them.
You know that I am the only one in the NLP world that you actually have a online access to? I am one of the best if not the best NLP Trainer in the world bar none. What do I get for that?
My students tells me I should tone down my website to sell more.
That I should use language like nice, sweet finalize your dreams make more money than Gates instead of getting a blow job from a thai guy thinking it’s a girl and when you get the best blow job ever in your life that you paid for and find out it was a guy, well who cares it was that good right? Your not gay just because you made one mistake. Explore your sexuality, no dogs aint it nor is cats or sheep or cows.
I don’t think we have enough talent in human beings to be nice to one another. I think schools should teach kids to be nice to other kids, and if an adult is evil and bad all the kids should gang up and kick their asses. Now I am accused of making kids revolt.
You cant win.
I am asking questions all the time, and I am questioning a lot also and that don’t make me popular.
Now, I could stop doing that, make my website more streamlined pretty, put hypnotic messages into my blog posts so you feel the urge that there is something here you really need to feel fully satisfied in life as you know how its like when your not and lately your life has gone stale a bit and you need that little extra bit I can sell you here.
Its just I cant do that shit.
I was asked by an RBIm student what I do things for, well I have a mission for Hans to make him get on the tour, period. Its what I spent my last few years doing, anything else? Nope. I said your willing I make you go there. I thought that people in a field they do play knew a lot about it, my mistake. I had to study that field, find out all the clowns in it debate what elbow should be where and what wrists is used to clean your as with.
I still work with a student I said I be here and that was 8 years ago.
I had a client that Kjell Enhager a mental sports psychologist started to work with and he bailed on her due to him couldn’t do what he said he could do, I think he is unethical as you cant bail on your clients. He did his wissy routine on her that just didn’t work. It don’t mean I succeed in every case far from it but I am like a bulldog, I bit and never let go.
Some clients been upset with me due to me just did my job and not agreeing with them. I made a few who was about to kill themselves live on, I made some clients change their life totally and hate me for it even though they now had a new job, new life and happy but they think I was the bad guy?
I told the doctor things he became upset with me and I was like, do your fucking job dude.
If you suck at your job I think you should hear it. So you can you know change jobs or get better at your job.
Its like DICE a game software company who lost their soul and identity. I think you should tell them they did loose their own game somewhere and they now are a failure and big such that they sold out their own franchise and cant make the brand Battlefield anymore. That’s what I do, now it wont mean DICE would listen or change, but for me I think they suck at their jobs now and need to get better again.
It happens to all of us, we might get stale, loose sight of what we are about, we loose the why we do things.
I look at the Dan Plan and I shake my head, that is a guy that spend every day working his game and he doesn’t have the best tools nor support for it. I disagree on the swing he is learning to do, it’s a disaster without consistency and he will struggle with it. A plan is good but one without superior strategy is not good.
I am lazy in such, I always find someone good at the things I want to do, then I check out what they do then I start doing it and find out it just works well, I did that with palo style, the Intu-flow and keep on doing that for 5 years now.
What’s your excuse?
Don’t like people hating you, yelling at you? They will do that anyway. Get good at something you can ignore them fully. Then find people that likes you for that good thing you can do or just wants to hang out with ya.
I am the RBImGuy thanks to Martin, I make people better, often they don’t want to be better they want to be average and stay that as its more comforting and safe. Its like people fear being good way more than to actually be bad at things. I pushed Hans for years now to do better to be better, his wife thinks I am nuts. She tells Hans you get so weird listening to him. It took her time to grow on me.
I want to coach Tour level pro golfers, period. I can stretch that to national team level in another sport but that’s about it. Don’t want to do anything else, I want to be able to take someone and then make then as good they can be realizing their potential so I also stretch my skills, my knowledge and my experience in life.
I know I have a model and template to make a tour pro hit a 0-4% dispersion pattern that guy Tiger Woods? he cant do it. If Hans make the tour this year, I retire fully.
Then I will write even more strange blog posts.
I am geared towards the best in golf, to make Hans dominate with his game, if he can or not I don’t know but talent is overrated, hard work, pain, disappointment is much better teachers as once you find out how easy it is, you just excel as then you found out the real secret about life.
oh so late got to go another time