Its easy to get hanged up with old things, like memories. Its easy to think oh those days was better without penicillin, with dysentery, with gonorrhea, with syphilis, without protection without doctors washing hands and killing babies after done an autopsy yes those days was much better.
Ouch I killed romance now right?
That what wishful thinking does, we isolate portions of what it could been but the rest?
floppy discs, CD wasn’t even out and I talk about 1980! Computers was a dream cellphones? come on. That wasn’t long ago, today every kid is face booking, sms and such without even considering what life would be without it.
Our recall of what was fun, enjoyable and such is like that we isolate portions of what was and nicely forget all the other shit that made life hell. Take kids today out in the forest remove the cellphones and they go crying in the dark.
Our brain is prone to go habit and automatic, if you remember things those then becomes isolated events in portion of our daily experience and the tendency to use them as what was true once then becomes true today we filtering our experience trough a past event so that means we don’t pay attention to events happening today. It leads to judgment, assumptions and just stay clear of icebergs titanic.
It also happens without we really know its happening as all seems fine, no panic bring towel.
Future memory has a disadvantage, it doesn’t seem real, in comparison to what is really real what has happen once earlier on. Imagine that you actually think what you been trough is more real than what you haven’t experienced yet.
Seems kinda funny to me, people tell me how it was better and forget what happens right now as I go how about your kid? They go, what about him? How is he today? they go whad ya mean?
I say, well he is different today than he was yesterday but if you don’t pay attention to present things, you miss it.
So what did happen yesterday is more real than what is happening right now and tomorrow?
How did that happen?
Its that guy who press delete when the computer writes on the screen delete hard drive yes or no? And then asks, what happen I cant access my files?
If you don’t understand that your colored eyeshades wear your shiny light into your eyes is passing trough the bus stop and you sit there thinking well nothing new happens and then you will have a generalization going on a perceptual filter that blocks anything that is fun out of your portion of experience. Unlike eyeglasses we cant remove this filtering or understanding it by putting on or off our glasses.
We could ask, why even care?
I use this to improve my enjoyment of the day, when I meet people I am making sure I take a snapshot of them what they are today not where they used to be and I even sometimes make sure they are their future selves.
If people think improvement happens without struggle, without challenge and without work they are deluding themselves. I found that I spent 4 years study the golf swing, now? I am done but during these 4 years I spent hitting balls and every swing I made I created a variation with, either as I played or when I was at the range or did swing indoors at home.
I didn’t which is common trying to make a perfect golf swing, and I didn’t improve my swing during this time. I was working for my future result. If you understand that, there is a whole process in between when you don’t and when you do. It’s a learning curve and I know whenever I do things its what I do I spend a ridiculous time uncovering every rock and flower out there.
So whenever your going to learn new things, you can check out examples of success, excellence you like I choose Mike Austin as he did it it long but also due to the fluidity he display while swinging. I never got the language of kinesiology, still don’t even if I do use some terms its not needed to learn to have a golf swing. Naturally once I have things down I go back and start applying them.
As I done with my own golf swing, its how I do work with modeling, it might seem funny to you, shouldn’t I be better during the project but modeling doesn’t work that way, its about the result then sorting to find out what does actually produce the result not what you think it does.
Once such has been found its put to the test.
Its what I do now, for myself for Larry and others.
RBIm is such system of self discovery and it will mean a lot of work doing it. If you want easy and simple, there is a ton of systems out there as options. I do Intu-flow daily since 5 or so years now, I changed my diet since 6 years back and keep on it. I recently decided to do a little faster weight loss so I applied that with a more strict eating habits and home schooling gym work, Yesterday 30 min walk, today its airsquats. I push this to my limit, which is silly low but I cant sit really comfortable as change and growth happens with work.
Its like a star, it doesn’t ignite until enough mass has been collected into enough density and when it does that then it ignites. Jupiter was almost a star, but almost isn’t good enough in the Universe. If it had been then we wouldn’t be here. Mistakes happen out there, right now the Andromeda galaxy is crashing into us, its not like we can, ok rear engines go left as we will crash into that galaxy one day. I wish I could have seen it.
I am preparing myself for the golf season, 3 months to range opens here, yes silly. I change my swing action lately as I applied the model for myself. Yesterday I watch my swing and went, ok turning in the downs wing, not good, changed one thing, didn’t turn anymore and went, aha this is what its like doing this then. Doing it this way allows me to understand much better if an amateur struggles and what they struggle with.
I don’t fix a bad habit, I don’t make specific changes, as once you discover what its like you can just do it, like riding a bike. No matter how bad a swing you might have, it will just work once your done with this one.
Larry will be the interesting case here, as we can compare a swing he did do for many years and at age 66/67 learning a totally new motion and hitting it 50 yards longer or whatever the case might be will raise a few eyebrows in the golf community. Once he is done which isn’t much left to do mainly some range work and tweaking, he be as consistent as Hans is and even if he isn’t as long, I suspect him to swing it 300+ yards now and then. It actually is around 10mph more than he does today which isn’t much as he haven’t been able to apply for all out yet.
Its how I have evidence to what I do and done, when the model works, it just works but it isn’t what you are used to follow and read about in a book or look at a video, here you will discover what your references has to be to create your own swing.
RBIm is like that also. Problem is I cant ask myself what I am doing as I be coloring this.
Not easy to be a star on my own.